Is it my fault that he wasn't hard anymore "during" ?

no it wasn't your fault unless he says it is.... guys don't work like us they dont think "oh well she didn't say anything nice about my hair today so I don't want to have " you could tell him he is a worthless peice of crap five min into the and he would still do it. Sometimes men have issues with getting hard. Haven't you really wanted to have but for some reason couldn't get off yeah well I have it is the same thing good luck and stop freaking out sometimes shittt happens give it another try>>>> mafiaprincess